Bazi Love Compatibility

Compare your chart with your partner's: what draws you together, how love feels day to day and where you will need patience. Free and instant.

Updated October 25, 2026

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Example pair

Lovers

Person A

丁The Candle

Dīng · Yin Fire · Horse

庚午 辛巳 丁丑 丁未

Open Person A's chart

A strong natural pull and plenty of support between the two charts.

Compatibility score: 89 out of 100. Excellent match.

Person B

壬The Ocean

Rén · Yang Water · Goat

辛未 壬辰 壬子 甲辰

Open Person B's chart

Lovers

Your charts, read as lovers

For lovers, ezfate weighs Day Masters and Spouse palaces most. This is what those parts of your two charts say.

  • Day Masters

    25% of the score (Lovers)

    95

    Your Day Masters are the core chemistry: what draws you in and how you clash.

  • Spouse palaces

    25% of the score (Lovers)

    95

    The day branches show the inner life of the relationship: comfort, intimacy and what home feels like.

Strongest point: Day Masters (95)To work on: Cross links (75)

Who you are to each other

Each Day Master read as a ten god in the other person's chart.

正官

Person B in Person A's chart

Direct OfficerPower

Someone who sets the tone. It is the classic spouse star for a woman: they bring structure and a little pressure, which can feel like security or like being managed.

正財

Person A in Person B's chart

Direct WealthWealth

Someone you want to win and look after. It is the classic spouse star for a man; for anyone it means attraction plus a wish to take the lead.

The pillars that speak to this relationship

Heaven and earth combine (天合地合)

Your day stems combine and your day branches form a six harmony: one of the strongest classical signs of a bond.

  • Spouse palaces (day branches)

    The seat of your closest relationship: comfort, intimacy and home life.

    They combine: this side of the relationship comes easily.

    Stem Combination, Six Harmony

Classic stars of this relationship

  • 水

    Spouse star (配偶星)✓

    Person B's Day Master is Water: exactly Person A's spouse star (Power). Tradition reads this as a natural pull.

  • 火

    Spouse star (配偶星)✓

    Person A's Day Master is Fire: exactly Person B's spouse star (Wealth). Tradition reads this as a natural pull.

Score breakdown

  • Day Masters

    25% of the score

    95

    丁 Dīng and 壬 Rén combine into Wood: a strong natural pull between you.

  • Spouse palaces

    25% of the score

    95

    丑 Chǒu and 子 Zǐ: Six Harmony.

  • Element exchange

    25% of the score

    81

    Person B's chart is 44% Water + Metal, the elements Person A needs most. Person A's chart is 30% Metal + Water, the elements Person B needs most.

  • Zodiac signs

    10% of the score

    95

    Horse and Goat: Six Harmony.

  • Cross linksLowest

    15% of the score

    75

    6 combinations and 3 clashes across the two charts.

Friction check

No real weak spot

Even your lowest factor, Cross links, scores 75/100, so the friction between you is mild.

How it shows up, and how to handle it

The sample reading shows how chapter 4, “Friction and how to handle it”, handles a pair like this.

Pillar by pillar

Each column compares the same pillar in both charts: stems on top, branches below.

Hour時

Day日

Month月

Year年

A
丁未
丁丑
辛巳
庚午
B supports ANo link
Stem CombinationSix Harmony
A supports BNo link
Same elementSix Harmony
B
甲辰
壬子
壬辰
辛未

What you give each other

Each chart has elements it needs. A good match supplies some of them.

Person B → Person A

水Water金Metal

Person B's chart is 44% Water + Metal, the elements Person A needs most.

Person A → Person B

金Metal水Water

Person A's chart is 30% Metal + Water, the elements Person B needs most.

Get the full compatibility reading

A plain-English AI reading of how your two charts work together, in five chapters: your match at a glance, how you work together, what draws you together, friction, and timing. The first chapter is free.

See a sample compatibility reading

How the score is weighted for lovers

The same five factors as every ezfate match, weighted for this relationship. Lovers use the classic weights shown in grey.

  1. 0125%

    Day Masters

    Your Day Masters are the core chemistry: what draws you in and how you clash.

  2. 0225%

    Spouse palaces

    The day branches show the inner life of the relationship: comfort, intimacy and what home feels like.

  3. 0325%

    Element exchange

    The element exchange shows whether you energize each other or wear each other out over time.

  4. 0415%

    Cross links

    Cross links count every combination and clash between the charts: the texture of daily life together.

  5. 0510%

    Zodiac signs

    Your zodiac animals add background chemistry: first impressions and shared rhythms.

What Bazi looks at between lovers

Love compatibility

A Bazi love match starts from four checks, each computed from both full charts rather than from your sign alone.

  • Day Masters (日干): the core chemistry, whether you combine, feed, check or clash.
  • Spouse palaces (日支): the day branches, the inner life of the relationship.
  • Spouse stars (配偶星): traditionally Wealth for a man and Officer for a woman. Is your partner's Day Master that element?
  • Element exchange: does each chart hold the elements the other needs?

The calculator above shows all four for your pair, with the score weighted the classic way for couples: Day Masters, spouse palaces and elements at 25% each.

Love tendencies by Day Master

Your Day Master colors how you love. Wood grows toward a partner and wants shared plans; Fire falls quickly and openly; Earth loves steadily and protects; Metal is loyal and principled; Water is perceptive and adapts.

Yin and yang matter too. A yang Day Master tends to lead and declare; a yin Day Master tends to read the mood and respond. Two yang Day Masters can compete for the lead; two yin ones may both wait for the other to move.

Classic signs of a strong pull

Tradition names a few pairings as especially magnetic: Day Masters that combine (干合, such as 甲 with 己), day branches in a six harmony (支合), and the rare 天合地合, when both happen on the same day pillars. A partner whose Day Master is your spouse star is another.

Clashes are not a verdict. A day-branch clash (冲) often means strong chemistry with friction: you stir each other up. Couples with a clash do best with clear agreements and some time apart.

From dating to marriage

Love compatibility and marriage compatibility weigh the same charts differently. In love the Day Masters and the spark between you count for more; in marriage the spouse palaces and the household rhythm (month pillars) take over. If you are thinking of marrying, open the marriage page with the same two people.

Love compatibility chart: the ten Day Masters

Every pairing of Day Masters, scored the way this relationship scores them. Rows are You, columns Your partner. Select a cell to read the pair.

甲
乙
丙
丁
戊
己
庚
辛
壬
癸
甲
乙
丙
丁
戊
己
庚
辛
壬
癸

甲×己

95

95 / 100 for lovers

甲 Jiǎ and 己 Jǐ combine into Earth: a strong natural pull between you.

Love compatibility: questions and answers

Love compatibility

The full reading, written for lovers

Five chapters on these two charts, written for this relationship: your match at a glance, how you work together, what draws you together, friction and timing.